I am writing a new book on ideas of things we can give to one another that cost little or no money. Here are some of the easy, no-cost gifts you can give to others every day. Always remember that the most valuable gifts do not cost money, but come from the heart:
The gift of listening
—One of the greatest things we can do for another person is to just listen without interrupting, daydreaming or thinking about our next leap into the conversation.
The gift of a compliment
—A simple and sincere,”You look wonderful in blue,” “That was such a beautiful note,” “What a fantastic meal!” or “You always brighten my day whenever I see your smile” can make someone’s day.
The gift of showing affection
—Demonstrate how much you care for others with hugs, kisses, a gentle squeeze of the hand, a pat on the back, smiles.
The gift of laughter
—Everyone loves to laugh. Try to see the humor in day-to-day living and share it with others. Also develop the ability to laugh at oneself.
The gift of cheerfulness
—This means no complaining, no feeling sorry for ourselves, no nasty comments, no screaming. Our gift of cheerfulness will
be precious for everyone including ourselves.
The gift of doing a favor
—Help with the dishes, type a letter, run an errand. Every day go out of your way to do something kind for someone.
The gift of contact
—Write notes as simple as “thinking of you today”. Make phone calls, reach out with support.
The Gift of solitude
—There are times when we want nothing more than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
The gift of acceptance
—Accept with fortitude the things we can’t change. This gift makes a difference in the lives of your friends and family.
The gift of prayer
—The hidden gift. Let your friends and loved ones know you pray for them—and then do it!
Sometimes we give out of necessity, social custom, or habit. But at other times our giving is out of pure generosity and love, and the feeling that comes from this kind of giving fills the heart and soul with the utmost joy. May you all find special ways YOU can give to others this week.
Blessings,
Barbara
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